No doubt, almost any adult person with normal libido considers sex to be one of the most important parts of his or her life. However, sometimes we have to suffer from sexual abstinence due to various, usually sad reasons: divorce, breakup, difficulties with finding a regular partner, etc. What should you do in such situations? Should you suffer until you find a regular partner? Actually, you can do so, but be aware of the fact that sexual abstinence is harmful both for men and women, especially for men in their forties, who after a long lasting sexual abstinence can completely lose ability to have sexual intercourse.
This implies that having erotic sensations and achieving orgasms is vitally necessary for any adult person. How can you cope with sexual abstinence? Below you can find some tips which will help you to cope with frustration during the period of absence of a regular sex partner.
1. Sleeping around is not the best choice here. You certainly know that casual sex is fright with many troubles such as sexually transmitted diseases. The worst thing about STDs is that a person might have an STD without being aware of this fact, this especially concerns men. Thus your partner can share an infection with you. After that you might find another casual partner and infect him or her being sure you do not have an STD.
Are a few moments of pleasure worth your health? Of course, they are not. Do not engage in sex with strangers. At least, protect yourself against STDs when having sex with a stranger. Keep in mind that there is no better protection against STDs than a condom. You might say that condom weakens your sensations, but do prefer to be healthy rather than to have more pleasurable sex.
2. Masturbate. Masturbation is the safest way to get rid from frustration sexual abstinence might cause. Do not be ashamed of the fact you masturbate. Masturbation is as natural as partner sex. Besides masturbation can be very useful for you. While masturbating you can learn more about your sexuality and your sexual response. Thus you will have better sexual relationships with your partner, when you find one.
Plenty of various sex toys can make your solo sex extremely enjoyable. There are sex toys designed for male and female masturbation. These sex toys are of various shapes and materials, thus giving you nice chance to choose a sex toy which will suit you best.
Women can use for solo sex such nice sex toys as dildos and vibrators. Dildos and vibrators offered to your attention can be simple and especial: for example the G-spot vibrator, which is a sex toy designed for the G-spot stimulation, rabbit vibrator which simultaneously stimulates the vagina and the clitoris, suction cup dildo which can be attached to a flat surface for hands-three masturbation and many other nice dildos and vibrators.
Men can use for masturbation such sex toys as realistic vaginas, oral-sex imitators and love dolls which perfectly resemble female body.
As well persons of both genders can masturbate with various anal sex toys, as anal stimulation can be very pleasurable for both men and women. Usually, people insert an anal sex toy (a butt plug) in the anus and enjoy manual masturbation simultaneously enjoying very pleasurable sensation of fullness in the anus.
Masturbation is not a sin! Being enhanced by sex toys masturbation can become a very pleasurable experience!
3. Exercise! Physical exercising does help get rid of frustration! Do whatever you want, the main thing is to like what you are doing. For example you can go to a gym or start jogging. First of all, sport will distract you and will help you think about something else but sex. Secondly it will help you to be in good shape and to feel and look good. While exercising your body releases such chemicals as endorphins - the same chemicals are released during sex. Exercising gives you both pleasure and good health!
As you see, you can go through the period of sexual abstinence without suffering and without risking your health! No doubt, you will find a beloved person with whom sex will be really earth-shaking. Good luck!
