With the last decades our knowledge on different forms of sex was evidently enriched. The limits of the acceptable and forbidden become more obscure. Gays are just people with another sexual orientation. BDSM is another form of getting sexual satisfaction. And all in all sex is not about having physical contact with another person. What is the direction our sexuality is moving on?The thing is that our lives are now more than ever connected with the brainwork. The most time that we spend is either with Internet, TV or other media. What we could do with our hands and physical efforts are now substituted by hi-tech. The same can be said for our so-called intimate life. The huge sex area was a taboo, shame or the most –a reproductive instinct. Nowadays, as majority is more or less aware of the variety of physical pleasures, still it get us bored.
We need the excitement on another level, which is - through mental stimulation. For example, you can have virtual sex with unknown person. While you are "communicating", you are imagining the hottest scenario with a dream lover and your body awakens for a storming orgasm. Was there any real touch? Perhaps your hands were working hard, but you had the entire scene in your mind and that means that organ that was involved the most in the process of having sex was your brain. Or just remember the first dates with your lover: you were totally excited. In your fantasy your most hidden desires were driving you wild at sole presence of the "stranger". Later the magic disappeared. Why?
The conclusion is obvious: we are not simple-our sex life is not simple anymore. And it really gives us the potential to experience the range of unknown sensations. Without mental excitement, our bodies remain as they are and we won't derive much from pure physical contact. While the limits of our mentality are endless, we can have exciting sex over and over again if we make use of the most sexual organ - our brain.
