Once when we had a small talk with my friend Sarah she mentioned that her relationships with her husband were just amazing. This sounded really cool especially considering the fact that she was a six months mom. Since I remember her she never mentioned anything special about her sex life. It was really surprising for me to hear that she was more than happy since she learned to experience pleasure and be in control. She said that she bought a sex toy and now it's her little secret. I thought that she bought a vibrator and that was really not a big deal since I had some too. But she said that this sex toy is not really a fun toy but more like a work-out for her. This was quite intriguing.
Sarah asked me if I ever heard about Geisha Balls. I had no idea about balls that were called sex toys or were somehow used by women for sexual pleasure. Then she said - when you have a child you will know that you need to keep your vaginal muscles toned. So she explained me that she purchased Geisha Balls or Ben Wa Balls since she was pregnant to give a bit of vaginal "fitness" to prepare for birth. When I looked at this so called sex toy there was nothing out of ordinary to make them a dream thing of every woman.
These was a pair of golden metal balls that although were quite nice looking didn’t imply anything sexual. How do you use them? I asked her. She said she inserted them inside and even wore them during the day. No way, I thought, how do you do that? She smiled and said it was very simple. You just need to find the way to exercise your vagina and concentrate.
As far as I understood, Geisha balls were used for increasing vaginal tonus that was especially important after birth. Since she practiced those exercises more than a year her husband never complained about her privates being "too large or flabby".
Of course this is quite a delicate problem and many women just keep silence about it trying to deal with sexual dissatisfaction. My friend was really informed abut possible problems but didn't seem to be discouraged. Otherwise she made everything she could to be in control of her own pleasure. She also claimed to have more powerful orgasms. What could be more convincing? I went to the nearest sex toys shop.
