Did sex in you bedroom goes according to a well-known scenario? Don't let boredom set in before you can make a change and introduce something exciting, whimsical and absolutely harmless. It's time to introduce devices which are supposed to give extra spice in your intimate life. In spite of the fact that people become more open-minded, the thought of purchasing sex toys still seems an undeservedly bad sign for those who never tried them in practice. Indeed, 74 % of people who purchase sex toys introduce their naughty devices to a partner. So how can you benefit from owning sex toys and how can you use them together with your partner? Here at least some tips on the ways of using sex toys in a couple's play.
1. Role-playing
There is no need to search for new sensations outside couple's bonds if you can play and experiment. Keep in mind that most things that excite us on a physical level are mainly a result of mental stimulation.
Surprises and even minor changes in your sexual behavior - that's what keep long-term relationships alive. Are you used to act as a passive side in your relationships? Turn into dominant and self-confident femme fatale or master. It may seem hard at the beginning but as soon as you try leather outfit on and take a feather flogger with a pair of nice handcuffs - all the questions will be removed.
BDSM sex toys should not sound scary to you, as you may use them for a mere fetish look and role-playing. But in case you like dominance-submission game- the opportunities for you and your partner are even greater.
1. Change sex roles
How does it feel to be in one's shoes? Why not trying to change sex roles with your partner and play a reverse game. Certain sex toys were designed for the purpose of adding the lacking element in your partner's body, which is ... a strap-on sex toy. A woman may wear strap-on not only in lesbian play but also for penetrating her partner from the rear position. Strap-on vibrators and dildos are attached to the harness and here you are... you may penetrate your partner.
2. Mutual masturbation
What do you know about your partner when he is left without your warm touch? Many men and women resort to solo sex even when they have regular sex with their lover. Don't make them hide this fact from you and introduce him/her and idea of stimulating each other with the help of sex toys. Does you partner have a vibrator or a dildo? Suggest the idea of pleasing him or her with this sex toy. This can be extremely arousing experience as this let your partner learn your body better and experiment with sex techniques before they are engaged in the actual sex play.
3. Reaching multiple orgasms
Fantasies about storming multiple orgasms may often occur in your mind. Still you were too tired to prolong the intercourse so that to reach the peak more than once. That doesn't mean you should take extra efforts to please your partner. All that is necessary is to engage one or two sex toys in the play.
If your woman is longing to achieve several big O's, try vibrators (clitoral, rabbit or G-spot vibrators) after letting her climax with you or let her cum with a vibrator and after that through an intercourse.
For a man, one of the most effective ways to experience multiple orgasms is a use of anal toys (anal beads and balls, anal vibrators, butt plugs) during or after the intercourse. Anyway, you are the one to decide which of the "sex toys plus you" method will be working best for your partner.
4. Enhancing usual sex practice
Few people deny that oral sex is a pleasure for both partners, though it's up to you to make it undeniably and truly enjoyable experience. What about your tongue sliding his penis or her clitoris simultaneously with the subtle vibrations of a tongue sex toy? Or did you ever try a cock ring with clitoral stimulator during lovemaking? And does a thought of your girlfriend using a clit remote control vibe while you penetrate her seem appealing to you? All these are actually examples of how a simple sex practice may turn into a funny and exotic sexual pleasure.
