The answer to this question may seem obvious. We may have three times a week or several times per month, and many of us are used to think that sex is another basic need. In fact, many people have sex for dozens of reasons that may not be related to sexual desires. Psychologists claim that out of 10 times we have sex, 2-3 times it feels earth-shattering, 5-6 times its nothing special and around 2 times you may wish it never happened.
Indeed, you may notice that sex is not always a real goal. Many people search for intimacy or emotional experience, others need to feel confident. No wonder, we can feel disappointed even when our sexual urges are satisfied. Women are more inclined to urge emotional fulfillment and refuse to have sex just because they are in bad mood for any sexual activity.
Men's desires are more detached from emotions thats why they are more predisposed to have sex after a quarrel, while women would rather talk to someone for emotional outlet. In fact, most of us will more readily use a sex toy if we feel a physical urge to have sex but are not attracted towards our partner. Next time when you think you need sex, you ask yourself: Do I really need it? Or am I just tensed or want to get rid of stress? If the answer is yes, a sex toy looks like a better solution than sex with a partner. The is nothing wrong to have sex to satisfy your physical urges, but you may feel more gratified if both of you really want it. In case when your partner has real desire to have sex and you only need to manifest your “outstanding performance”, the conflict begins. It doesn't mean you should only have sex when you feel the desire, but mutual agreement is necessary.
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