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Orbit Ring Vibe - Heaven Pleasure

Mon, 05 Nov 2007 00:00:00 +0300

I came up with the idea of using a sex toy during the intercourse long ago. I wanted both of us feel great and introduce something really saucy into our games. A sex toy for both of us? When I told my boyfriend that I would like to try a cock ring, he looked quite concerned, but I explained that I was more than satisfied with our sex life. I thought that we should experiment and there was nothing wrong with making both of us feel good. Of course, he was a bit uncertain about using a cock ring, saying that he didn't want some "stuff" to restrain his cock. So I decided to find the best cock ring to please him and satisfy my curiosity. I bought Orbit Ring Vibe- a cock ring that promised to be more than heaven. The stretchy jelly rubber ring felt quite firm, being at the same time very stretchy that give your man a perfect fit over his balls and cock. The vibrations were quite strong and clitoral stimulator that could double as testicle tickler was simply amazing. Besides the obvious advantage of this cock ring as a sex toy that provides hard rock erection it also is the best naughty thing for girls. We've tried to use this cock ring in different positions and I should tell you that clitoral stimulator gave me pure satisfaction. The ribbed surface and a egg-shaped design of the stimulator was long enough to reach my clitoris. With every thrust, the nice vibrations gently caressed my clit, making me feel hornier. I simply turned him over on his back and got on top of him. In a woman on top position I could control the thrusting and position myself in the best possible way to arouse myself even greater. That was the wildest ride ever, not to mention that we reached orgasm almost simultaneously. Now this is one of my favorite sex toys along with rabbit vibe and though it was a little pricier than i expected, it was just worth it. My advice for all couples is to play with sex toys and don't be afraid of playing, if you really want to keep your sex life alive!

Beginners Bondage Kit

Thu, 27 Sep 2007 00:00:00 +0400

I was always keen on experiments in the bedroom everything that is probably a definite turn on that would keep my desire alive. That's probably how I came up with the idea of introducing an element of S/M play. I am not really interested in torturing my lover, but he often said that it would be great if I took the initiative. I thought it was a high time visiting one of the local sex toys shops where I had to check bondage gear section. There was a wide array of handcuffs, masks and floggers made of leather - all seemed so sleek and so sexy that I just didn't know where to start. As I was a newbie in this kind of games, I chose a Beginners Bondage sex toys kit. This sex toy had ankle and wrist restraints with four bedpost extensions, a satin mask and a leather whip. As I left the shop with a naughty buy, I started thinking about the way to make a surprise for my hubby. It was a time when he was lying on the bed reading something when i approached him to run my fingers across his chest. I took the mask and gently put it on his eyes. He was quite surprised but tried to stay calm anticipating what will be next. I spread his legs and put on the ankle restraints. He asked me:"What are you doing?" while I kept on restraining his legs. "Stay calm - everything will be ok", I said to him. I saw his face was saying that he was all ears waiting for unknown. Oh my, I was nervous too - will he like it or not? I started fondling his body, touching his nipples and chest while running my hair along his body right down to his bits. I started teasing him and he moaned as he could not control me somehow. I felt that I became the only one who set the rules in this play and I have total control -this was really arousing. While all he could do was helplessly lie there and moan I made everything to make him wriggle and burst with utmost satisfaction. When the play was over, I took off the bondage gear and later asked him what he felt. He said that never was he so aroused and he could hardly describe this experience in words. The one thing he promised me is that he will try bondage game on me.

Sex Toys For Dummies

Thu, 20 Sep 2007 00:00:00 +0400

I have seen it all...blow me up Betty, Ultra Realistic Male, Vibrators that plug into the internet, and a vagina men can tote around with them in their pocket! I work in the business of fulfilling people's fantasies and more often than not I come across people who don't know how to use these toys that they have already purchased. Most adult novelties have basic instructions (which some really don't need) but maybe there should be a SEX TOYS FOR DUMMIES book out there. I've found a website that sells adult toys and has a whole advice/directions section on their website - - they also have one of the largest selections I've seen around. Mostly, using your new toy is about trial and error...play around and have fun with it. After all, it is a "toy" :)

A Secret Every Woman Should Know

Wed, 22 Aug 2007 00:00:00 +0400

Once when we had a small talk with my friend Sarah she mentioned that her relationships with her husband were just amazing. This sounded really cool especially considering the fact that she was a six months mom. Since I remember her she never mentioned anything special about her sex life. It was really surprising for me to hear that she was more than happy since she learned to experience pleasure and be in control. She said that she bought a sex toy and now it's her little secret. I thought that she bought a vibrator and that was really not a big deal since I had some too. But she said that this sex toy is not really a fun toy but more like a work-out for her. This was quite intriguing. Sarah asked me if I ever heard about Geisha Balls. I had no idea about balls that were called sex toys or were somehow used by women for sexual pleasure. Then she said - when you have a child you will know that you need to keep your vaginal muscles toned. So she explained me that she purchased Geisha Balls or Ben Wa Balls since she was pregnant to give a bit of vaginal "fitness" to prepare for birth. When I looked at this so called sex toy there was nothing out of ordinary to make them a dream thing of every woman. These was a pair of golden metal balls that although were quite nice looking didnt imply anything sexual. How do you use them? I asked her. She said she inserted them inside and even wore them during the day. No way, I thought, how do you do that? She smiled and said it was very simple. You just need to find the way to exercise your vagina and concentrate. As far as I understood, Geisha balls were used for increasing vaginal tonus that was especially important after birth. Since she practiced those exercises more than a year her husband never complained about her privates being "too large or flabby". Of course this is quite a delicate problem and many women just keep silence about it trying to deal with sexual dissatisfaction. My friend was really informed abut possible problems but didn't seem to be discouraged. Otherwise she made everything she could to be in control of her own pleasure. She also claimed to have more powerful orgasms. What could be more convincing? I went to the nearest sex toys shop.

High ride sex experiments

Mon, 06 Aug 2007 00:00:00 +0400

The idea to buy a personal vibe was tempting enough. To put it simply I wanted some action - a really hot action, the one that you cannot always have with your boyfriend. As far as i could hear from my female friends, almost all of them had some difficulty achieving orgasm through the intercourse. They said that they either required some lengthy foreplay or the right mood but they never mentioned the performance itself. Though the more experience you get, the more you want to experiment and get the most from the act itself. You do not always have a possibility to twist and turn your man to do whatever you want. Basically, I wanted to experiment to know how to achieve orgasm easier. Again I didn't think about substituting my beloved one for a vibrator, but why not try and than say. Why did I choose a vibrator? Well, I think that first of all the vibrator always have additional features and if you do not move it, at least it vibrates. And vibrator for penetration was my number one priority. Why do we claim that we can have only clitoral orgasm? Vaginal orgasm is just as easy to achieve if you really wish to bring yourself to real pleasure. When I decided to purchase one more vibrator, I already knew what I wanted from it. No clitoral stimulator, no additional features - simply a traditional phallus-shaped vibe that could vibrate at different speeds and do some other things like rotating or pulsating. I found the one that was fit enough to my demands: it was red-colored with a bubbled head, very nice and as wanted, the vibrator had the rotating and vibrating functions. So I started my experiments with this Strawberry Bubblehead vibrator. The first week I used the vibe, I tried everything from the high speed ride to the slow motion and simple sensation of fullness inside. The rotating head plus enjoyable vibrations were awesome, you just melt in a groovy rhythm as your body shakes and waves of pleasure go through your body higher and higher. The more I used it the more I understood when it's time to slow down and when it's time to speed up. Of course, the vibrator cannot give you such a range of feelings and sensations as a man can, but you cannot underestimate its benefits. The next time you have sex with your partner, you do not simply wait for your orgasm to happen, you just know how to do it better. And nothing is better than knowing that you can control the situation and make yourself happy.

Vibrator envy

Tue, 17 Jul 2007 00:00:00 +0400

I decided to buy a vibrator, not that I really needed one desperately, but I thought it would be interesting to try. I heard something about sex toys from my friends and one of them was totally excited about Jack Rabbit Vibrator. She claimed that since she bought this wonder vibrator - she just got addicted to it, so that was probably a hint for me to where I could start the exploration of sex toys world. When I told about the idea to my boyfriend he was not against it:"If it brings you pleasure then why not?" So we decided to purchase Jack Rabbit Vibrator together. The vibrator looked nice: more than seven inches jelly shaft and five inches girth, with rotating pearls inside, together with clitoral stimulator made in the shape of little bunny. The seller assured me that no one ever claimed on Jack Rabbit Vibrator and this is the number one vibrator that guarantees orgasm to every woman in just few seconds. When I unpacked my Rabbit Vibrator, my boyfriend Greg only uttered: "Uh, he is so big". I smiled and decided to try it on my own in the evening. Greg went to the party with his friends and I finally had the time to get familiar with my vibrator. First it was strange until I learned how to turn on the buttons, but as I inserted it and made my Jack Rabbit vibe work, my excitement grew very quickly until I moaned in ecstasy. God, I never cum so fast and it was just with the help of this jelly vibrator. When Greg had returned, I was more than elated. He asked if I tried the vibrator and how long it took me to cum. I told him the truth- it was quite fast and I liked it a lot. I noticed that he looked somewhat unsure and asked what is wrong. Greg said:"You never cum so fast with me". Now I understood everything - he was jealous of my Jack Rabbit Vibrator and told me that now I will spend more time with this sex toy and won't need him anymore. That was ridiculous for me: surely the vibe was amazing and I get orgasm faster, but I will never change the vibe for a man. I tried to explain everything to Greg and he seemed to understand me, though he said that if I use the vibrator, it's better for him not to know. It was still hard for him to accept the fact that some sex toy can satisfy me just as well or even better than he does.

Why great sex is fading away

Fri, 06 Jul 2007 00:00:00 +0400

Once people got to know each other on a physical level, they sexual relationships are at its peak and they don't even have the time to think over "variety". However, with the time even the awesome sex becomes not so acute for many couples. Who is to blame? One can say that having sex with one partner for a long time is a reason why sex feels rather routine. But just think-with any other person sex won't differ much and in any case there would be some problems to solve. That's why it's better to take a closer look at problems within a relationship rather than seek the solution outside. First thing that makes sex boring is a habit to have a "programmed intercourse" where you already know what will happen next. Thereó is no need to mention that things we know well do not seem so exciting after all. Very often two lovers find several positions that suit them the best, choose certain foreplay and stick to this order every time they have sex. If it brings pleasure why not do it over and over again? Here is the biggest trap lovers get into when they are in long-term relationships. So what can you do? First of all, do not think that if one thing brings your lover to highest pleasure, you should always do it. The exploration of one's body can be no less exciting than intercourse itself. Besides everyone of us is absolutely individual: some women even orgasm from the sound of raindrops. Why wouldn't you explore your and your partner's hidden desires even if they seem unusual for both of us? The slightest details make the difference: many people tend to forget the courtship stage and do not bother to seduce their better half with surprises. But writing a small note with a compliment can make such a big difference that passion can fuel stronger than when you didn't know much about each other. Second, many people do not dare discuss something with their partner because they feel embarrassed. For example you have a foot fetish, but think that your lover may consider you a pervert if you tell about your peculiarity. In this case, the best decision is to talk openly about your preferences and needs. In fact, you may discover that your partner has his or her own unusual needs. But you will never discover something new until you decide to talk out. There is no need to seek for pleasure outside- you can find it by your side! Sex toy Z

Top men-substitutes

Mon, 18 Jun 2007 00:00:00 +0400

Vibrator Probably more than a half of all women achieved their first orgasm with this wonder of sex toys industry. A lot of men would be insulted to know that this electrical device never disappoints women and makes wonders with their bodies. Surely, a woman wouldn't substitute a loving hug for a soulless buzz of a vibrator, but when nothing's left the little naughty thing is better than bad relationships.
Chocolate According to the latest research more than a half of British women prefer chocolate to sex. When they were asked why theó most common answer was: it never disappoints. Indeed, if chocolate is pleasure that bring you the same heck of pleasure hormones why would a woman choose a man.
Shopping The best cure for a failed romance is clothes, shoes, jewelry, perfumes, cosmetics, fitness dress and lots of other material things that help women channel their negative energy into something more peaceful and useful. Interesting enough, almost all women who broke up with their beloved ones, thing of the start of a "new life", which begins with a new hairdo and those nice shoes.
Career Hardly one can argue that many successful women failed to have a relationship with men. Although a good career is not an obstacle for personal life, the lack of the latter is a good chance to move forward and succeed in life. No wonder many women choose a career where they feel more confident than a relationship where chances for stability are les obvious.
Girl-friends What happens when a woman is feeling down? She calls to her friends to discuss the old truth that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. Women are known to suffer less from cardiovascular diseases and the reason is simple- they are used to talk out their problems and overcome their relationship problems with friends.

The worst sex lies

Thu, 07 Jun 2007 00:00:00 +0400

1. I never had such a good lover This is usually true in one out of thousand cases. No need to say that almost everyone wants to be the best and probably thats what most of us want to hear and would easily believe. 2. I had a storming orgasm Faking orgasm has become the easiest answer to calm down man's pride still believing that sex was a failure if a woman didn't orgasm. Though, faking orgasm on a regular basis needs too many efforts to lie about it to your long-term partner. 3. I had so many lovers (men) Some men like to exaggerate their sex victories in order to prove their masculinity. However, many women react quite negatively to "sex list" thinking they must be the next to try and forget. 4. You are my second (the less the better) Women otherwise try to hide the number of partners, their experience and sex experiments they had in the past. They know that most men wouldn't want to be compared to any other. 5. I don't remember her In fact, a man is unlikely to forget a woman he had long-term relationship with. In most cases, he probably fears your jealousy. 6. We had sex but I didn't like her Basically this might be true at early teenage, but most men are more scrupulous in choosing a sex partner. And if he spent at least some months with that woman he certainly was attracted to her anyway. 7. I cheated on you After divorce every third woman tells her partner she had extramarital affair. Very often this is not true, but resentment often makes women lie. 8. You are nothing in bed Some women tell this phrase in the heat of a words fight, but soon will regret. The worst think to hurt man's self-esteem is to humiliate him by saying he is the worst sex performer.

Dirty talks

Mon, 28 May 2007 00:00:00 +0400

Silent sex can be exciting, but no more exciting than nasty talks during the most enjoyable moments. Moaning, sighing and uttering sounds can add that little something that turns pleasure into memorable thing. But that doesn't mean one can tell anything in the face of the lovår so that he or she will get excited. And everything that happens between two people who trust and feel comfortable at each other's presence looks extremely sexy and arousing. In this regard nothing proves to be spicier than few "dirty" words that you can tell to your lover. The first and the foremost thing are certainly trust and consent. Of course you can suddenly let yourself go and say something really nasty, but the reaction can be unpredictable from the spat on your face to the awkward silence in response. Again, forcing what comes against your partner's desire cannot feel good. The best way in this situation is to start with a compliment, whispering into his or her ears, uttering what makes you feel so horny about your partner. You may also try to pre-communicate the sexual encounter, leaving notes to each other or sending intriguing messages. Anticipation of the event can become a huge turn on. Talking out your deepest sexual fantasies is not only a good way to spice up the process but also makes you understand your lover's needs. Saying something really nasty or vulgar may surprisingly take your partner at the heights of bliss, taking into consideration you at least know the possible reaction or you learned from her or him that it's ok with both of you. In fact, those who try dirty talks and are used to spice up their sex life with seductive conversations feel more closer as a result and are more satisfied with their relationships.

Solo sex with your lover

Sun, 20 May 2007 00:00:00 +0400

What about having sex with a person you love the most? I mean with yourself and ..with you partner watching. Some of you will be probably ashamed to tell, but everyone knows that almost all of us masturbated from time to time. You could discovered strange feelings at your early teens when you occasionally touched yourself down there and lately found it's the best possible way to reduce sexual tension. No one told you it was a good thing to do but almost everyone claimed sex is awesome. Who wouldn't be curious enough to know how it feels when you are completely alone? However, most of us still think that masturbation is a private matter and few admitted they did it in front of their lover. You could ask why would anyone masturbated in the presence of another person if you have a possibility to do what's natural? Indeed, gratification from the partner sex is often higher if you both find understanding on this level. But it doesn't mean you cannot derive pleasure from playing solo in each other's presence. The reasons for that can be different:

You cannot achieve orgasm during intercourse. This often concerns women, who are not enjoying vaginal penetration (and more than half of women don't). In this regard, stimulating your own sensitive zones like clitoris during intercourse can be the better way to experience the heights of pleasure.
You give your partner a necessary knowledge about your own body. Even the most experienced lover cannot know your body better than you do. If you really want to get maximum sexual satisfaction it's a matter of your willingness to show what brings you the most pleasure.
You have no protection for safer sex. The reasons can be different, but if you find yourself in a situation when the arousal is high and immediate, why not having solo sex at the spot it's safe, fun and very spicy.

Sexual incompatibility is your marriage enemy

Sat, 12 May 2007 00:00:00 +0400

Sometimes people find it difficult to understand why relationships ended. A few years ago everyone was happy and togetherness seemed to last forever. However, with the time dissatisfaction became evident. Does it mean that love has died? Many problems actually take roots from sexual incompatibility. According to numerous researches sexual disharmony became triggers for divorce in 40 percent of cases. In many cases, men and women have different attitudes towards sex. Very often a woman is brought up in rigorous atmosphere and was taught to see sex as dirty and disgusting. No need to say that if her husband has unprejudiced attitude towards sex, the situation will sooner or later become tense. Some couples claim that they are incompatible physically, when for example a man has too big penis and woman has tight vagina but this is quite a rare situation. In most cases the supposed physical incompatibility is either lack of lubrication for a woman or wrong position. Other complaint is disharmony of sexual drives of both partners. In a situation when man needs sex 5 times per week and his wife will be content with twice times per month, infidelity becomes a way out to compensate for the lack of sexual activity. However if we take the situation when a woman is more demanding in bed, a man may simply become anxious about his performance and this may even lead to erectile dysfunction. Communication is often the key to discuss those intimate issues and very important the first big step lies in open discussion of each side's problems. This shouldn't sound as resentment but rather as a way to find a compromise. One should not take sexual incompatibility as natural. Constant dissatisfaction is a route for physical and emotional problems and two people who found common ground in other areas of their lives can well make their sexual lives healthy and harmonious. www.sextoyz.in

Do women need an orgasm?

Thu, 03 May 2007 00:00:00 +0400

There are so many reasons why women cannot easily achieve orgasm through simple physical act that sometimes it seems that orgasm is rather a thing invented to equate men and woman. From the biological point of view there is no need for a woman to have orgasm as her body is ready for procreation no matter if she reached a desired big O or not. But as we dont have sex only to give birth to a child but mostly for pleasure sake the orgasm difficulty raises numerous concerns for women and all the scientific staff that is trying to solve the grand problem. If you ask a smart sexologist on the topic of female orgasm you will get the whole range of answers which state one blur thing- women are complex creatures and such things like mood swings, minor conflicts can interfere with the enjoyable process and kill all the efforts. Women start buying vibrators searching for that unbelievable pleasure. The mechanical thing can indeed sometimes become an alternative for reaching orgasm, but if a woman feels the necessity to choose, she'd rather have good sex without orgasm than have multiple orgasms with a sex toy. The reason is simple - women don't need an orgasm and shouldn't set a goal to reach it by no means. The real objective should be satisfying sexual relationships and it is possible to have ones without orgasm. Women's orgasm also has one peculiarity: when you urge to have one - it becomes even more distant perspective. Indeed, sex is not a sport- it's a process and if you are thinking about your chances of reaching it finally, you make sex a competition while not giving yourself a possibility to sense the enjoyment. www.sextoyz.in

Why do you have sex?

Tue, 24 Apr 2007 00:00:00 +0400

The answer to this question may seem obvious. We may have three times a week or several times per month, and many of us are used to think that sex is another basic need. In fact, many people have sex for dozens of reasons that may not be related to sexual desires. Psychologists claim that out of 10 times we have sex, 2-3 times it feels earth-shattering, 5-6 times its nothing special and around 2 times you may wish it never happened. Indeed, you may notice that sex is not always a real goal. Many people search for intimacy or emotional experience, others need to feel confident. No wonder, we can feel disappointed even when our sexual urges are satisfied. Women are more inclined to urge emotional fulfillment and refuse to have sex just because they are in bad mood for any sexual activity. Men's desires are more detached from emotions thats why they are more predisposed to have sex after a quarrel, while women would rather talk to someone for emotional outlet. In fact, most of us will more readily use a sex toy if we feel a physical urge to have sex but are not attracted towards our partner. Next time when you think you need sex, you ask yourself: Do I really need it? Or am I just tensed or want to get rid of stress? If the answer is yes, a sex toy looks like a better solution than sex with a partner. The is nothing wrong to have sex to satisfy your physical urges, but you may feel more gratified if both of you really want it. In case when your partner has real desire to have sex and you only need to manifest your outstanding performance, the conflict begins. It doesn't mean you should only have sex when you feel the desire, but mutual agreement is necessary. Powered by www.Sextoyz.in

When women want and men don't

Wed, 11 Apr 2007 00:00:00 +0400

Men need sex-the more so, they are claimed to be obsessed with sex, thinking every X number of seconds about it. However, this seems to be a big overestimation to say that women are somewhat receptive and men are somewhat pushy to have sex. Our physical urges became indeed equal with the prevalence on women side lately. Why are we used to think that sexual needs are more demanding for men than women? In fact, the situation most men were brought up inclined us to consider men as aggressive animals driven by their wild instincts. If you have sex - you are a man, if you don't- you are loser. If your penis is erect- you are a man, if your willy is not firm and big it means the end of the world (at least for a man). This really creates an image of an ever-wanting macho aka real man who is always ready, and cannot resist looking at the naked body, becoming absolutely uncontrollable. But there are a lot of cases when men really don't want sex but are afraid just to admit this fact, as this will be a sign of their failure. I wouldn't argue that men have quite strong sexual urges but this is not self-evident as they get tired too, can be too concerned with their work and simply find more interesting stuff to do from time to time. Of course, a man is unlikely to claim that recent mood swings do not attune him to sex, however, constant fights with his wife is quite a reason to want physical intimacy no more than once in a month. A woman who will face a problem that her man doesn't want her that often may come to a conclusion that there is something wrong with her as she "knows that men want" or otherwise he has erectile dysfunction. In fact, male readiness to have sex everywhere and anytime is not a natural but more imposed.

She hates sex-why?

Sun, 01 Apr 2007 00:00:00 +0400

She is always lying there waiting for you to cum. After half an hour of a sweaty intercourse she suddenly reminds you of the new haircut (lawn mower you forgot to buy). Her face stays calm and emotionless while you are enjoying the highest peak of pleasure. All these are definite signs she hates sex as much as you love it. In most cases, if a woman is used to act as a corpse bride, a man will think that he is the only reason for such an indifferent attitude towards sex. If he the feeling of guilt becomes unbearable (and most men do hate this feeling) he can blame his woman of coldness and frigidity. In fact, the reasons of her coldness may not even slightly be connected with your performance. What are they?

Her "good girl" upbringing While most men are proud of their sex victories, women are not approached with the same loyalty. Very often, the image of a decent woman and a "whore" woman are things that do not go together well for many women. She may be used to hear that only good girls deserve respect and affection. It's just hard for her to admit that bedroom is an area where all the good manners should be left aside and pleasure is the only thing that comes to the fore.
Her body Many men are well aware that perfect body can be found in hot magazines and night channels. Many women are just as much aware that their body is far from the awesome standard that media tries to promote. Even the most attractive women remain unsatisfied with their body image. The only thought that you are going to see "the real size of her breasts", "her big but", "her belly" and so on and so forth can scare any woman to death. That's why the most preferable scenario for a woman who suffers from " dissatisfaction with her own body " remains dark room and missionary position.
Her past Good girls like bad boys - bad boys break hearts. However common it may sound, one bad event with an awkward and careless partner can spoil nights of pleasure for a woman who begins her sexual life. However, her memory may be so strong that she no longer thinks of sex as an enjoyable activity. The only thing one can do in this situation is to talk and clear all the fears that prevent your woman from getting pleasure and enjoying sex in full.

Female sexuality stabs men

Sat, 24 Mar 2007 00:00:00 +0300

How do women come to love vibrators more than men? In fact their commitment to magic devices doesn't diminish with the time. On the contrary, with the advanced technologies in adult sex toys industry, it seems that sex toys slowly win the race. In 2006, around 75 percent of women purchased sex toys and erotic aids online. Though, privacy and better choice of sex toys was the predominant reasons to buy sex toys, women's awareness of their sexuality and its power can soon overpower feelings of embarrassment and what one consider shameful. Hardly one could imagine that a medical device would turn into a mind-blowing pleasure for millions of women who didn't even know about the existence of orgasm. British physician who was only searching for the effective hysteria treatment and thought that therapeutic massage would be of use discovered the first female vibrator occasionally. As one of the most common practices to treat hysteria was manual massage, doctors thought of mechanization of the process. As soon as US inventor created "the Manipulator" vibrator for women in 1869, there was little left to let all women realize that female orgasm is not a myth. In fact female sexuality now dominates male sexuality to greater extend than ever. First, women are more demanding in sex- it takes man more efforts to satisfy a woman than otherwise. Second, women who realized their power always used their sexuality to win man's pockets, attention and lives. And third, social pressure that suggested men to assert their masculinity by satisfying a woman didn't diminish. The whole modern picture that comes out is: women who are aware of their sexual enormous desires and men who want a woman to satisfy their vital needs. And who is in control now?

Will you accept gays as a social group?

Sat, 17 Mar 2007 00:00:00 +0300

Being quite unfamiliar with the reality of gay lifestyle I never had any prejudiced attitude towards those who I consider not much different than anyone else. We are mostly used to the thought that sexual attraction is just a personal matter and our sexuality can have different expressions. For better or for good, social norms do not agree so readily to our hidden intimate urges even in "sexual freedom" era. Are you a gay? It's ok for you to sleep just with anyone. The smiling face of the society shows that we are open-minded and understanding. Do you want to get married? Well, something is wrong in accepting this statement. Please, stay in the closet, cause we all feel uncomfortable for youê strange legalized relationships. And do you want to have a child? Now a real protest comes into fore. The arguments may defend the view where gays are naturally unable to raise a child. Initially possesses this prerogative and were considered to be the best match for bringing-up. And what's for thå current situation? A man raising a child alone is a rare case, while two men raising a child becomes something that goes beyond the common vision of life. It's hard to accept the fact. The problem is that we are still used to see gays as "one's sexual preferences" not as a social group. Actually, there would be no more harm for a child to be raised up by gay parents than if he would be raised by straight parents who treat him badly. It all depends on a person, not his sexual orientation. And if we are afraid that our children would be ill-influenced by those who remain "another world" people, it's because of our incomplete awareness and acceptance of people who are basically the same but who adopt to these social norms much difficult than we are.

The most sexual organ

Sun, 11 Mar 2007 00:00:00 +0300

With the last decades our knowledge on different forms of sex was evidently enriched. The limits of the acceptable and forbidden become more obscure. Gays are just people with another sexual orientation. BDSM is another form of getting sexual satisfaction. And all in all sex is not about having physical contact with another person. What is the direction our sexuality is moving on? The thing is that our lives are now more than ever connected with the brainwork. The most time that we spend is either with Internet, TV or other media. What we could do with our hands and physical efforts are now substituted by hi-tech. The same can be said for our so-called intimate life. The huge sex area was a taboo, shame or the most a reproductive instinct. Nowadays, as majority is more or less aware of the variety of physical pleasures, still it get us bored. We need the excitement on another level, which is - through mental stimulation. For example, you can have virtual sex with unknown person. While you are "communicating", you are imagining the hottest scenario with a dream lover and your body awakens for a storming orgasm. Was there any real touch? Perhaps your hands were working hard, but you had the entire scene in your mind and that means that organ that was involved the most in the process of having sex was your brain. Or just remember the first dates with your lover: you were totally excited. In your fantasy your most hidden desires were driving you wild at sole presence of the "stranger". Later the magic disappeared. Why? The conclusion is obvious: we are not simple-our sex life is not simple anymore. And it really gives us the potential to experience the range of unknown sensations. Without mental excitement, our bodies remain as they are and we won't derive much from pure physical contact. While the limits of our mentality are endless, we can have exciting sex over and over again if we make use of the most sexual organ - our brain.

Solo vs. partner sex

Sat, 10 Mar 2007 00:00:00 +0300

For about several decades ago one wouldn't even doubt any other possibility to find physical satisfaction than by having sex with another person. While sex with a partner surely remains on top, solo sex scales up to win an advantage over twosome. The reasons are quite obvious:

Right partner Later when our choices were more or less determined, which is: you came around the guy or gal next-door, met and moonlight dates would subsequently turn into marriage bedroom. Now, you have a plenty of guys/gals next door, but you want someone with good looks, intelligence, wit, big heart, money and so on and so forth. Too demanding isn't it? Not really. Of course, you can have sex just with anyone, but who would ever be compared with a person like you?
Less complications Reality of long-term partner sex is just as follows: fake orgasms, boredom, cheating and all the variety of practices to conceal dissatisfaction. Consequences of one-night stands look even more pessimistic. With masturbation you don't face all these problems. And for those who say that your hand doesn't give you much of variety, you can simply buy yourself a bunch of sex toys and compare.
Variety of technique You may oppose that having sex with a partner gives you a chance to experiment with so many techniques. But who said that a sex toy that is rotating, escalating and pulsating with a whole range of speeds inside and outside your spots are worse than a penis or vagina? Besides, you will hardly find a partner to give you double/triple pleasure like some of sex toys do.

However strange it may seem, solo sex becomes a better option for one big reason: the more individualized our lives are, the less we need someone to satisfy our needs that become more and more choosy.

Butterfly Vibrator in Use

Thu, 04 Jan 2007 00:00:00 +0300

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Fri, 15 Dec 2006 00:00:00 +0300

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Wed, 29 Nov 2006 00:00:00 +0300

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