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› Top Ten Sex Toys Gifts
Nov 21, 2007
What is the best gift for any woman: flowers, perfume or diamond ring? While all of them are more than welcome, you won't deny that having a sex toy as a gift can be very pleasant. Though ladies can be too shy to admit that the best way to entertain themselves or with a partner is to have one more sex toy they could receive as a gift.

Here are some suggestions of sex toys that are not only bestsellers but also were appreciated by a huge number of women. Here you are, my top ten sex toys gifts.

Hitachi Magic Wand
This is a "must have" vibrator of all times. Claimed by most women as a number one sex toy , Hitachi Magic Wand is known as one of the most powerful vibrators for clitoral pleasure. In spite of the fact that it looks simple, you won't ever be disappointed with this two-speed vibrator. If you want to have a sure thing to give you orgasm for every encounter then this is the best gift ever.

It can be used for massage, for example when you have a back ache, but of course this vibrator is unbeaten as clitoral pleaser. Just hold on as it may be too strong for you to handle!


Rabbit Pearl
When I talk about vibrators, almost every one thinks of a rabbit vibrator. The two way stimulation with clitoral bunny teaser and classic rotating shaft with beads - what can be better for woman's pleasure? Pink color, soft touch of the "bunny" ears around your clit and nice buzz of pearls inside the shaft - you just have everything at once.

Personally, I adore rabbit vibrators for their functionality and intense stimulation. If you are in doubts what vibrator to choose -the Rabbit Pearl will be the best start.


Black Lace Brief Panty One Size Remote
If you are afraid of buying a gift that would actually look like a sex toy, you can choose something discreet and ambiguous. Who doesn't like sexy lingerie? Every woman does as well as man. And what about having a vibrator hidden in your lace panties? Yes, the adult industry has gone far beyond its limits.

I adore these sensuously looking silky panties that are not only good for wearing and seducing your lover, but are worth five stars for being one of the most sophisticated underwear items. First of all it doubles as remote control vibrator, which means that you can hand in the remote control to your partner and he will switch it on for hands-free delight. All you need is just relax and enjoy!


Laya Spot
Small, cute, quiet, waterproof, multispeed, powerful - is it possible to have a vibrator that has it all? I would say- yes it is. I would recommend this sex toy as good climaxer and foreplay vibrator. Its amazing design, high quality material, and wide range of functions is worth the money.

This sex toy was kind of innovative some years ago when it surprised all sex toys lovers with its ergonomic design that was all-women friendly. When I used this one on my own it was just the ultimate comfort. You do not need to distract on other things- you turn it on and it works wonders on your clit and labia.


Pocket Rocket
One more clitoral thing that is a good choice for beginners and experienced lovers. Many women use this sex toy for years and it remains as powerful as it was at the beginning. Vibrating metal balls at the tip of the vibrator tease your clitoris quietly and what is more important- effectively. It may not look as sleek as Laya Spot but it is definitely just as good.

You can expect to cum in few seconds with this vibe, and want to continue.


The Cone
You may be surprised to find a sex toy that doesn't look like a sex toy, but believe me this is one of the greatest gadget sex toys for most refined lovers. Why? Simply because you can use it in many ways. Nice pink color and discreet look, this conically shaped sex toy is all-in-one piece for women as well as for men, which makes it a perfect gift for couples.

It has only two buttons for control but 16 speed: vibrating, pulsating and powerful. If you use for clitoral fun you simply sit placing your legs around it and it covers the whole clitoral area with essential vibrators. If you want to use it for penetration- you can sit on top of it and enjoy the feeling of fullness. And for more adventurous lovers- this can be used by both partners at a time.


Fukuoku Five Finger Massage Glove
This is truly a wonder of sex toys. The really surprising fact for me was to find that this vibrator can do all sorts of things your imagination suggests. It looks like a glove , but has tiny vibrators at the tip pf each finger. You only have to put it on and stroke any part of your or partner's body. It can be adjusted to any size and is controlled by a battery pack on the inside. So whenever you want to give your lover an erotic massage or simply indulge in your sexual whims, put on a Fukuoku Glove and it will do the job better than your fingers can.

Very useful and discreet - that are good qualities for a gift.


Snugglepuss
It looks a bit fun, but you will find it more than a nicely looking toy. This sex toy is designed for clitoral-G-spot simultaneous stimulation, being perfectly flexible to fit your body contours and positioning its nubs against your clit and G-spot. I used to buy G-spot vibrator but always felt that I lack some additional stimulation on my clit. When I found this toy- it was just right for me. Soft, yet quite firm to do the right job at the right place, targeting your hottest spots-G-spot and clitoris. Besides its very easy to control.

Natural Contours Ultime Vibrator
Artfully designed vibrator that can be used as a massager or as your favorite sex toy. What I like in this vibe is the fact that it has all the perfect curves to caress your body. Though it is made from plastic, the natural hardness adds to good pressure against your clitoris and lovely curves makes it easy to manipulate with this toy. It offers three speeds options, it is very durable and high-quality. It goes as good foreplay vibe and you can take it anywhere while traveling as a massage tool so none will ever guess you are going to play with this naughty thing.


OhMiBod
This one won its fame in the adult toys industry being one of those unique sex toys that can make you a real stylish gal who knows what the real pleasure means. This is a music activated vibrator that works in tune with your favorite music beats. Bullet-style shape and sleek design add to your visual pleasure, music delight your ears, while the buzz of this vibe is making you hotter. You can plug it in in any music playing device and enjoy the soft and gentle vibrations on your hot spots. Definitely a great present for your beloved one.

› Orbit Ring Vibe - Heaven Pleasure
Nov 05, 2007
I came up with the idea of using a sex toy during the intercourse long ago. I wanted both of us feel great and introduce something really saucy into our games. A sex toy for both of us? When I told my boyfriend that I would like to try a cock ring, he looked quite concerned, but I explained that I was more than satisfied with our sex life. I thought that we should experiment and there was nothing wrong with making both of us feel good.

Of course, he was a bit uncertain about using a cock ring, saying that he didn't want some "stuff" to restrain his cock. So I decided to find the best cock ring to please him and satisfy my curiosity. I bought Orbit Ring Vibe- a cock ring that promised to be more than heaven. The stretchy jelly rubber ring felt quite firm, being at the same time very stretchy that give your man a perfect fit over his balls and cock. The vibrations were quite strong and clitoral stimulator that could double as testicle tickler was simply amazing.

Besides the obvious advantage of this cock ring as a sex toy that provides hard rock erection it also is the best naughty thing for girls. We've tried to use this cock ring in different positions and I should tell you that clitoral stimulator gave me pure satisfaction.

The ribbed surface and a egg-shaped design of the stimulator was long enough to reach my clitoris. With every thrust, the nice vibrations gently caressed my clit, making me feel hornier. I simply turned him over on his back and got on top of him. In a woman on top position I could control the thrusting and position myself in the best possible way to arouse myself even greater. That was the wildest ride ever, not to mention that we reached orgasm almost simultaneously.

Now this is one of my favorite sex toys along with rabbit vibe and though it was a little pricier than i expected, it was just worth it. My advice for all couples is to play with sex toys and don't be afraid of playing, if you really want to keep your sex life alive!
› Beginners Bondage Kit
Sep 27, 2007
I was always keen on experiments in the bedroom everything that is probably a definite turn on that would keep my desire alive. That's probably how I came up with the idea of introducing an element of S/M play. I am not really interested in torturing my lover, but he often said that it would be great if I took the initiative.

I thought it was a high time visiting one of the local sex toys shops where I had to check bondage gear section. There was a wide array of handcuffs, masks and floggers made of leather - all seemed so sleek and so sexy that I just didn't know where to start. As I was a newbie in this kind of games, I chose a Beginners Bondage sex toys kit. This sex toy had ankle and wrist restraints with four bedpost extensions, a satin mask and a leather whip.

As I left the shop with a naughty buy, I started thinking about the way to make a surprise for my hubby.

It was a time when he was lying on the bed reading something when i approached him to run my fingers across his chest. I took the mask and gently put it on his eyes. He was quite surprised but tried to stay calm anticipating what will be next. I spread his legs and put on the ankle restraints. He asked me:"What are you doing?" while I kept on restraining his legs. "Stay calm -
everything will be ok", I said to him.


I saw his face was saying that he was all ears waiting for unknown. Oh my, I was nervous too - will he like it or not? I started fondling his body, touching his nipples and chest while running my hair along his body right down to his bits. I started teasing him and he moaned as he could not control me somehow. I felt that I became the only one who set the rules in this play and I have total control -this was really arousing. While all he could do was helplessly lie there and moan I made everything to make him wriggle and burst with utmost satisfaction.


When the play was over, I took off the bondage gear and later asked him what he felt. He said that never was he so aroused and he could hardly describe this experience in words. The one thing he promised me is that he will try bondage game on me.
› Sex Toys For Dummies
Sep 20, 2007
I have seen it all...blow me up Betty, Ultra Realistic Male, Vibrators that plug into the internet, and a vagina men can tote around with them in their pocket!

I work in the business of fulfilling people's fantasies and more often than not I come across people who don't know how to use these toys that they have already purchased. Most adult novelties have basic instructions (which some really don't need) but maybe there should be a SEX TOYS FOR DUMMIES book out there. I've found a website that sells adult toys and has a whole advice/directions section on their website - - they also have one of the largest selections I've seen around. Mostly, using your new toy is about trial and error...play around and have fun with it. After all, it is a "toy" :)
› A Secret Every Woman Should Know
Aug 22, 2007
Once when we had a small talk with my friend Sarah she mentioned that her relationships with her husband were just amazing. This sounded really cool especially considering the fact that she was a six months mom. Since I remember her she never mentioned anything special about her sex life.

It was really surprising for me to hear that she was more than happy since she learned to experience pleasure and be in control. She said that she bought a sex toy and now it's her little secret. I thought that she bought a vibrator and that was really not a big deal since I had some too. But she said that this sex toy is not really a fun toy but more like a work-out for her. This was quite intriguing.

Sarah asked me if I ever heard about Geisha Balls. I had no idea about balls that were called sex toys or were somehow used by women for sexual pleasure. Then she said - when you have a child you will know that you need to keep your vaginal muscles toned. So she explained me that she purchased Geisha Balls or Ben Wa Balls since she was pregnant to give a bit of vaginal "fitness" to prepare for birth. When I looked at this so called sex toy there was nothing out of ordinary to make them a dream thing of every woman.

These was a pair of golden metal balls that although were quite nice looking didn’t imply anything sexual. How do you use them? I asked her. She said she inserted them inside and even wore them during the day. No way, I thought, how do you do that? She smiled and said it was very simple. You just need to find the way to exercise your vagina and concentrate.

As far as I understood, Geisha balls were used for increasing vaginal tonus that was especially important after birth. Since she practiced those exercises more than a year her husband never complained about her privates being "too large or flabby".

Of course this is quite a delicate problem and many women just keep silence about it trying to deal with sexual dissatisfaction. My friend was really informed abut possible problems but didn't seem to be discouraged. Otherwise she made everything she could to be in control of her own pleasure. She also claimed to have more powerful orgasms. What could be more convincing? I went to the nearest sex toys shop.
› High ride sex experiments
Aug 06, 2007
The idea to buy a personal vibe was tempting enough. To put it simply I wanted some action - a really hot action, the one that you cannot always have with your boyfriend. As far as i could hear from my female friends, almost all of them had some difficulty achieving orgasm through the intercourse. They said that they either required some lengthy foreplay or the right mood but they never mentioned the performance itself. Though the more experience you get, the more you want to experiment and get the most from the act itself.

You do not always have a possibility to twist and turn your man to do whatever you want. Basically, I wanted to experiment to know how to achieve orgasm easier. Again I didn't think about substituting my beloved one for a vibrator, but why not try and than say.

Why did I choose a vibrator? Well, I think that first of all the vibrator always have additional features and if you do not move it, at least it vibrates. And vibrator for penetration was my number one priority. Why do we claim that we can have only clitoral orgasm? Vaginal orgasm is just as easy to achieve if you really wish to bring yourself to real pleasure.

When I decided to purchase one more vibrator, I already knew what I wanted from it. No clitoral stimulator, no additional features - simply a traditional phallus-shaped vibe that could vibrate at different speeds and do some other things like rotating or pulsating. I found the one that was fit enough to my demands: it was red-colored with a bubbled head, very nice and as wanted, the vibrator had the rotating and vibrating functions. So I started my experiments with this Strawberry Bubblehead vibrator.

The first week I used the vibe, I tried everything from the high speed ride to the slow motion and simple sensation of fullness inside. The rotating head plus enjoyable vibrations were awesome, you just melt in a groovy rhythm as your body shakes and waves of pleasure go through your body higher and higher.

The more I used it the more I understood when it's time to slow down and when it's time to speed up. Of course, the vibrator cannot give you such a range of feelings and sensations as a man can, but you cannot underestimate its benefits. The next time you have sex with your partner, you do not simply wait for your orgasm to happen, you just know how to do it better. And nothing is better than knowing that you can control the situation and make yourself happy.
› Vibrator envy
Jul 17, 2007
I decided to buy a vibrator, not that I really needed one desperately, but I thought it would be interesting to try. I heard something about sex toys from my friends and one of them was totally excited about Jack Rabbit Vibrator. She claimed that since she bought this wonder vibrator - she just got addicted to it, so that was probably a hint for me to where I could start the exploration of sex toys world.

When I told about the idea to my boyfriend he was not against it:"If it brings you pleasure then why not?" So we decided to purchase Jack Rabbit Vibrator together. The vibrator looked nice: more than seven inches jelly shaft and five inches girth, with rotating pearls inside, together with clitoral stimulator made in the shape of little bunny. The seller assured me that no one ever claimed on Jack Rabbit Vibrator and this is the number one vibrator that guarantees orgasm to every woman in just few seconds.

When I unpacked my Rabbit Vibrator, my boyfriend Greg only uttered: "Uh, he is so big". I smiled and decided to try it on my own in the evening. Greg went to the party with his friends and I finally had the time to get familiar with my vibrator. First it was strange until I learned how to turn on the buttons, but as I inserted it and made my Jack Rabbit vibe work, my excitement grew very quickly until I moaned in ecstasy. God, I never cum so fast and it was just with the help of this jelly vibrator. When Greg had returned, I was more than elated.

He asked if I tried the vibrator and how long it took me to cum. I told him the truth- it was quite fast and I liked it a lot. I noticed that he looked somewhat unsure and asked what is wrong. Greg said:"You never cum so fast with me". Now I understood everything - he was jealous of my Jack Rabbit Vibrator and told me that now I will spend more time with this sex toy and won't need him anymore. That was ridiculous for me: surely the vibe was amazing and I get orgasm faster, but I will never change the vibe for a man.

I tried to explain everything to Greg and he seemed to understand me, though he said that if I use the vibrator, it's better for him not to know. It was still hard for him to accept the fact that some sex toy can satisfy me just as well or even better than he does.
› Top men-substitutes
Jun 18, 2007

  1. Vibrator
    Probably more than a half of all women achieved their first orgasm with this wonder of sex toys industry. A lot of men would be insulted to know that this electrical device never disappoints women and makes wonders with their bodies. Surely, a woman wouldn't substitute a loving hug for a soulless buzz of a vibrator, but when nothing's left – the little naughty thing is better than bad relationships.

  2. Chocolate
    According to the latest research more than a half of British women prefer chocolate to sex. When they were asked why – theó most common answer was: it never disappoints. Indeed, if chocolate is pleasure that bring you the same heck of pleasure hormones why would a woman choose a man.

  3. Shopping
    The best cure for a failed romance is clothes, shoes, jewelry, perfumes, cosmetics, fitness dress and lots of other material things that help women channel their negative energy into something more peaceful and useful. Interesting enough, almost all women who broke up with their beloved ones, thing of the start of a "new life", which begins with …a new hairdo and those nice shoes.

  4. Career
    Hardly one can argue that many successful women failed to have a relationship with men. Although a good career is not an obstacle for personal life, the lack of the latter is a good chance to move forward and succeed in life. No wonder many women choose a career where they feel more confident than a relationship where chances for stability are les obvious.

  5. Girl-friends
    What happens when a woman is feeling down? She calls to her friends to discuss the old truth that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. Women are known to suffer less from cardiovascular diseases and the reason is simple- they are used to talk out their problems and overcome their relationship problems with friends.

› The worst sex lies
Jun 07, 2007

1. I never had such a good lover
This is usually true in one out of thousand cases. No need to say that almost everyone wants to be the best and probably that’s what most of us want to hear and would easily believe.

2. I had a storming orgasm
Faking orgasm has become the easiest answer to calm down man's pride still believing that sex was a failure if a woman didn't orgasm. Though, faking orgasm on a regular basis needs too many efforts to lie about it to your long-term partner.

3. I had so many lovers (men)
Some men like to exaggerate their sex victories in order to prove their masculinity. However, many women react quite negatively to "sex list" thinking they must be the next to try and forget.

4. You are my second (the less the better)
Women otherwise try to hide the number of partners, their experience and sex experiments they had in the past. They know that most men wouldn't want to be compared to any other.

5. I don't remember her
In fact, a man is unlikely to forget a woman he had long-term relationship with. In most cases, he probably fears your jealousy.

6. We had sex but I didn't like her
Basically this might be true at early teenage, but most men are more scrupulous in choosing a sex partner. And if he spent at least some months with that woman he certainly was attracted to her anyway.

7. I cheated on you
After divorce every third woman tells her partner she had extramarital affair. Very often this is not true, but resentment often makes women lie.

8. You are nothing in bed
Some women tell this phrase in the heat of a words fight, but soon will regret. The worst think to hurt man's self-esteem is to humiliate him by saying he is the worst sex performer.
› Why do you have sex?
Apr 24, 2007
The answer to this question may seem obvious. We may have three times a week or several times per month, and many of us are used to think that sex is another basic need. In fact, many people have sex for dozens of reasons that may not be related to sexual desires.

Psychologists claim that out of 10 times we have sex, 2-3 times it feels earth-shattering, 5-6 times its nothing special and around 2 times you may wish it never happened.

Indeed, you may notice that sex is not always a real goal. Many people search for intimacy or emotional experience, others need to feel confident. No wonder, we can feel disappointed even when our sexual urges are satisfied. Women are more inclined to urge emotional fulfillment and refuse to have sex just because they are in bad mood for any sexual activity.

Men's desires are more detached from emotions thats why they are more predisposed to have sex after a quarrel, while women would rather talk to someone for emotional outlet. In fact, most of us will more readily use a sex toy if we feel a physical urge to have sex but are not attracted towards our partner. Next time when you think you need sex, you ask yourself: Do I really need it? Or am I just tensed or want to get rid of stress? If the answer is yes, a sex toy looks like a better solution than sex with a partner. The is nothing wrong to have sex to satisfy your physical urges, but you may feel more gratified if both of you really want it. In case when your partner has real desire to have sex and you only need to manifest your “outstanding performance”, the conflict begins. It doesn't mean you should only have sex when you feel the desire, but mutual agreement is necessary.

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› She hates sex-why?
Apr 01, 2007
She is always lying there waiting for you to cum. After half an hour of a sweaty intercourse she suddenly reminds you of the new haircut (lawn mower you forgot to buy). Her face stays calm and emotionless while you are enjoying the highest peak of pleasure. All these are definite signs she hates sex as much as you love it.

In most cases, if a woman is used to act as a corpse bride, a man will think that he is the only reason for such an indifferent attitude towards sex. If he the feeling of guilt becomes unbearable (and most men do hate this feeling) he can blame his woman of coldness and frigidity.

In fact, the reasons of her coldness may not even slightly be connected with your performance. What are they?
  1. Her "good girl" upbringing
    While most men are proud of their sex victories, women are not approached with the same loyalty. Very often, the image of a decent woman and a "whore" woman are things that do not go together well for many women. She may be used to hear that only good girls deserve respect and affection. It's just hard for her to admit that bedroom is an area where all the good manners should be left aside and pleasure is the only thing that comes to the fore.
  2. Her body
    Many men are well aware that perfect body can be found in hot magazines and night channels. Many women are just as much aware that their body is far from the awesome standard that media tries to promote. Even the most attractive women remain unsatisfied with their body image. The only thought that you are going to see "the real size of her breasts", "her big but", "her belly" and so on and so forth can scare any woman to death. That's why the most preferable scenario for a woman who suffers from " dissatisfaction with her own body " remains dark room and missionary position.
  3. Her past
    Good girls like bad boys - bad boys break hearts. However common it may sound, one bad event with an awkward and careless partner can spoil nights of pleasure for a woman who begins her sexual life. However, her memory may be so strong that she no longer thinks of sex as an enjoyable activity. The only thing one can do in this situation is to talk and clear all the fears that prevent your woman from getting pleasure and enjoying sex in full.

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› Female sexuality stabs men
Mar 24, 2007
How do women come to love vibrators more than men? In fact their commitment to magic devices doesn't diminish with the time. On the contrary, with the advanced technologies in adult sex toys industry, it seems that sex toys slowly win the race.

In 2006, around 75 percent of women purchased sex toys and erotic aids online. Though, privacy and better choice of sex toys was the predominant reasons to buy sex toys, women's awareness of their sexuality and its power can soon overpower feelings of embarrassment and what one consider shameful.

Hardly one could imagine that a medical device would turn into a mind-blowing pleasure for millions of women who didn't even know about the existence of orgasm. British physician who was only searching for the effective hysteria treatment and thought that therapeutic massage would be of use discovered the first female vibrator occasionally. As one of the most common practices to treat hysteria was manual massage, doctors thought of mechanization of the process.

As soon as US inventor created "the Manipulator" vibrator for women in 1869, there was little left to let all women realize that female orgasm is not a myth.

In fact female sexuality now dominates male sexuality to greater extend than ever. First, women are more demanding in sex- it takes man more efforts to satisfy a woman than otherwise. Second, women who realized their power always used their sexuality to win man's pockets, attention and lives. And third, social pressure that suggested men to assert their masculinity by satisfying a woman didn't diminish.
The whole modern picture that comes out is: women who are aware of their sexual enormous desires and men who want a woman to satisfy their vital needs. And who is in control now?
› Solo vs. partner sex
Mar 10, 2007
For about several decades ago one wouldn't even doubt any other possibility to find physical satisfaction than by having sex with another person. While sex with a partner surely remains on top, solo sex scales up to win an advantage over twosome. The reasons are quite obvious:

  1. Right partner
    Later when our choices were more or less determined, which is: you came around the guy or gal next-door, met and moonlight dates would subsequently turn into marriage bedroom.
    Now, you have a plenty of guys/gals next door, but you want someone with good looks, intelligence, wit, big heart, money and so on and so forth. Too demanding isn't it? Not really. Of course, you can have sex just with anyone, but who would ever be compared with a person like you?
  2. Less complications
    Reality of long-term partner sex is just as follows: fake orgasms, boredom, cheating and all the variety of practices to conceal dissatisfaction. Consequences of one-night stands look even more pessimistic.
    With masturbation you don't face all these problems. And for those who say that your hand doesn't give you much of variety, you can simply buy yourself a bunch of sex toys and compare.
  3. Variety of technique
    You may oppose that having sex with a partner gives you a chance to experiment with so many techniques. But who said that a sex toy that is rotating, escalating and pulsating with a whole range of speeds inside and outside your spots are worse than a penis or vagina? Besides, you will hardly find a partner to give you double/triple pleasure like some of sex toys do.


However strange it may seem, solo sex becomes a better option for one big reason: the more individualized our lives are, the less we need someone to satisfy our needs that become more and more choosy.
› Good Female Orgasm Tips
Feb 02, 2007
Do you know what you need for a good orgasm? In fact everything you need is a good lover and good mood, or in other words an erotic mood. Erotic mood implies complete relaxation and concentration on your sensations. Sometimes this seems to be quite difficult matter. I will suggest you some ideas on what you should do, or, to be precise what not to do in order to relax and get enjoyments.

1. While making love never have in your head even a thought like this
  1. Are kids sleeping?

  2. Is my husband sleeping now?

  3. If anyone comes in now, she will tell everyone in the office what she has seen

  4. What the hell is stinking so awfully here? His socks?

  5. He is like a monkey. Does he shave his back in summer???


Instead try to get rid of all things that prevent you from getting enjoyment and relax. Kill any thought that comes to your mind!

Concentrate on your sensations or on a part of your body, for instance on the back of your head. I don't know how it works but many women say this is a good idea.

Sex after dinner is bad sex. Drunk sex is bad sex too. Well, alcohol does not mean you will not orgasm. You will, if you can, but your orgasmic sensations will not be strong, so mainly you will get moral satisfaction (Wow, I managed to cum!)

Make sure it is not too hot in your bedroom. Sweaty bodies making love to each other in the rays of tropical sun are good only in movies. In reality heat makes you weak. What is more heat makes men sweat like…oh, I can't find an inoffensive epithet. I don't think this looks and smells very erotic.

And the last tip. Do not moan, groan, scratch his back if you have no wish to. Actresses are paid for such things, and you are not. This only will prevent you from concentrating on your sensations. Do not think he is going to consider you to be absolutely asexual unless you yell like a pet dog having her first sex with a crazy hippopotamus.

Tips for men


You can follow all the tips given above, but you will never have strong orgasm unless he knows how to give you enjoyment. Let him read what I am telling above.

So the first tip. Never penetrate her without foreplay - you are aware of this, but why don't you do that? Foreplay is the main condition of success. But do not do this like you used to: kiss her lips, then ear, then the right nipple, then you lick her pussy (to make it wetter) - and insert your penis there. This is not foreplay. This is a mockery of a porn film. Don't say - "Why doesn't she let me know she doesn't like it?" She cannot. She is afraid you will consider her abnormal if she suggests using a sex toy or kissing her heel. So do ask her what she wants.

Second tip. Stimulate every her erogenous zone - you certainly know what these are. But do not think two-three seconds are enough. Do make good use of your fingers, lips and tongue or sex toys - yeah, don't think that sex toys are something unnecessary, women love them! For instance you can stimulate her nipples with a vibrator, or you can use a clitoral pump to caress her clitoris. If you are not quite familiar with sex toys, visit an online sex toy store and find out more about these devices.

The third tip. Women who never experience vaginal orgasm do need clitoral stimulation during intercourse. You can do this yourself or let her do that. Clitoris can be stimulated with fingers, however clitoral stimulation is much more convenient with sex toys, like discreet clitoral vibrators. Is she ashamed of stimulating her clitoris while you are making love to her pussy? Than turn off the light!

The last tip. If you orgasmed before her, do not fall asleep. Help her to orgasm! I understand that your penis is weak - make good use of a sex toy, for instance of an electric vibrator or of a realistic dildo! Or let her do that. She deserves orgasms as well as you. Let her enjoy incredible orgasms! You can do that!
› Threesome with buzz
Jan 10, 2007
Did sex in you bedroom goes according to a well-known scenario? Don't let boredom set in before you can make a change and introduce something exciting, whimsical and absolutely harmless. It's time to introduce devices which are supposed to give extra spice in your intimate life.

In spite of the fact that people become more open-minded, the thought of purchasing sex toys still seems an undeservedly bad sign for those who never tried them in practice. Indeed, 74 % of people who purchase sex toys introduce their naughty devices to a partner. So how can you benefit from owning sex toys and how can you use them together with your partner? Here at least some tips on the ways of using sex toys in a couple's play.

1. Role-playing
There is no need to search for new sensations outside couple's bonds if you can play and experiment. Keep in mind that most things that excite us on a physical level are mainly a result of mental stimulation.

Surprises and even minor changes in your sexual behavior - that's what keep long-term relationships alive. Are you used to act as a passive side in your relationships? Turn into dominant and self-confident femme fatale or master. It may seem hard at the beginning but as soon as you try leather outfit on and take a feather flogger with a pair of nice handcuffs - all the questions will be removed.

BDSM sex toys should not sound scary to you, as you may use them for a mere fetish look and role-playing. But in case you like dominance-submission game- the opportunities for you and your partner are even greater.

1. Change sex roles
How does it feel to be in one's shoes? Why not trying to change sex roles with your partner and play a reverse game. Certain sex toys were designed for the purpose of adding the lacking element in your partner's body, which is ... a strap-on sex toy. A woman may wear strap-on not only in lesbian play but also for penetrating her partner from the rear position. Strap-on vibrators and dildos are attached to the harness and here you are... you may penetrate your partner.

2. Mutual masturbation
What do you know about your partner when he is left without your warm touch? Many men and women resort to solo sex even when they have regular sex with their lover. Don't make them hide this fact from you and introduce him/her and idea of stimulating each other with the help of sex toys. Does you partner have a vibrator or a dildo? Suggest the idea of pleasing him or her with this sex toy. This can be extremely arousing experience as this let your partner learn your body better and experiment with sex techniques before they are engaged in the actual sex play.

3. Reaching multiple orgasms
Fantasies about storming multiple orgasms may often occur in your mind. Still you were too tired to prolong the intercourse so that to reach the peak more than once. That doesn't mean you should take extra efforts to please your partner. All that is necessary is to engage one or two sex toys in the play.

If your woman is longing to achieve several big O's, try vibrators (clitoral, rabbit or G-spot vibrators) after letting her climax with you or let her cum with a vibrator and after that through an intercourse.

For a man, one of the most effective ways to experience multiple orgasms is a use of anal toys (anal beads and balls, anal vibrators, butt plugs) during or after the intercourse. Anyway, you are the one to decide which of the "sex toys plus you" method will be working best for your partner.

4. Enhancing usual sex practice
Few people deny that oral sex is a pleasure for both partners, though it's up to you to make it undeniably and truly enjoyable experience. What about your tongue sliding his penis or her clitoris simultaneously with the subtle vibrations of a tongue sex toy? Or did you ever try a cock ring with clitoral stimulator during lovemaking? And does a thought of your girlfriend using a clit remote control vibe while you penetrate her seem appealing to you? All these are actually examples of how a simple sex practice may turn into a funny and exotic sexual pleasure.
› What a vibrator can and men don't
Jan 03, 2007
Most of sex victories men claim to have do not actually coincide with the practice. The only fact of having numerous sex partners will not assure you success among the opposite sex. No wonder many women make use of sex toys instead of explaining their partner what they really want. The art of erotic pleasure may seem quite complex, nevertheless you can master this task with the help of these very devices. So what can you learn from sex toys?

1. Sex toys will stimulate her most intricate zones
While some men constantly ignore foreplay as an optional but not a necessary thing, women who have sex toys often use them to caress their most sensitive zones. One of the most secret spots in female body is her G-spot, which is not so easy to reach without certain knowledge. For a man, it is necessary to know that G-spot can be stimulated from a particular angle and position. But in case all your efforts were in vain you can make use of an old wonder of sex toys industry -G-spot vibrators, which are designed to solve this problem easily.

2. Sex toys don't penetrate when you are not lubricated
Keep in mind that haste may kill desire in a moment. This should be a golden rule for an intercourse. Penetrating a woman when she is not ready for it, is likely to evoke very unpleasant sensations for her and turn a pleasant sexual act into torture. Normally, when a woman is aroused, vagina produces enough lubrication, but sometimes you may need some extra of that thing. Sex toys that are sold in adult stores are supposed to go with a water-based lubricant (and by the way, the amount of lubricant is not

3. Sex toys give a variegated sex
Everyone knows - routine is a crucial factor that leads to sexual dissatisfaction. If you choose a traditional couple of sex positions, apply to a common erotic scenario and proceed to her erogenous zones the same way you did it dozens of times, most that can be expected for your sex life is that your woman will be looking for another man to satisfy her intimate needs. In this regard the wide variety of sex toys infuses a fresh spirit into a usual sex play and can well become a helpful tool in intimate life.

4. Sex toys can do it for two
It is a well-known fact that the most effective way to bring a woman to orgasm is to give her additional stimulation during an intercourse. It means that basically a man needs at least his penis and his hands at once. Nowadays, a lot of sex toys are created to give double and even triple pleasure (like rabbit vibrators, vibrators with settings or double-dildos).

If you read all this and fear that sex toys will replace a man in a near future, just remember that one thing sex toys are never able to give is warmth of your hands and a sweet excitement of the play.
› It's a high time to love your body!
Dec 15, 2006
A woman's sexual pleasure is influenced by many factors, such as her age, her sexual experience, her partner, state of health and many others. Nevertheless, only a woman herself is responsible for her sexual pleasure. A woman who loves her body, who considers it to be worth enjoyment will always be happy with her sex life. Explore your body and give it everything it deserves. You can do it!

Dear women, we are so different and we all are so beautiful! We deserve all the beauty and pleasure the world can offer us!

We are those creatures who always need understanding, affection and sexual satisfaction. We are always eager to experiment and to search for new passionate sensations search. Our sexual life is full of plenty erotic instants, desirable and unforgettable moments that can last for minutes or sometimes hours. Our imagination is full of perverted and outlandish sexual ideas. But these ideas are not always accomplished in reality, because of our partners. Yeah, sometimes men are too lazy to care for our desires and fantasies. Should we always depend on them?

We do need a friend, someone who will never leave us alone in difficult moments. What can become such a friend? A sex toy! This is what we need- an awesome sex toy that will enrich our sexual experience and will help you learn more about own sexual response.

Sex toys are welcomed in the cupboard of every woman. You can enhance your sexual pleasure and excitement by playing with these gorgeous and interesting toys. The wide range of sex toys allows choosing the suitable one for you. They vary from elegant to hilarious designs, from big to small sizes, from one shape to another. They are multifunctional, portable and easy to carry.

Sex toys are witnesses of your sexual actions. Sex toys will bring your sexual life to fruition. They will expose you to a better exploring of your erogenous zones and caressing your body. Women's body needs to be petted, admired. Sex toys are addicted to offer these feelings and to serve you long period. They are not demanding and will never betray you. Sex toys assure maximum pleasure and the best you expects. You have to appreciate all intimate moments within the company of your preferred toys. They gladden our life conferring it a funny character.

Due to their strict upbringing some women do not dare fulfill their sexual fantasies considering them too dissolute. There are females who are embarrassed when thinking or speaking about masturbation, to say nothing of practicing it. Don't be ashamed of being the owner of a sex toy! Due to it you are going to perceive new feelings and make your sexual dreams come true.
Be ingenious! Step ahead! You undoubtedly deserve to have an amazing sex toy. It will never bother you. If you want your sex toy to express itself you will allow it. It will be fantastic! A remarkable obedience and a perfect understanding of your body!!! Your slave is entirely yours. Its fate depends on your desires. It will fulfill all your fantasies and will never say it is too tired today to love you.

Do not let your sexual life to bore! Add a note of fun and pleasure using sex toys. You will never regret!
› My Favorite Sex Toy
Oct 07, 2006
I love sex and find interesting everything connected with this four letter word. Well, definitely it won't be true saying that I accept everything in sex. There're things that don't impress me at all and there're heaps of passions that give me immense pleasure.

The idea to buy a vibrator came to my mind a long time ago. Several times I was passing by a shop with expressive signboard but something restrained me from entering. Nevertheless curiosity and foretaste of new sensations prevailed and one evening I entered that shop.

I knew what exactly I was looking for that's why I didn't study multicolored boxes in the shop window. I approached a young girl and said:

- I am interested in vibrators, battery-operated but without remote control and preferably only for women.

The girl showed me several variants. Before my eyes the whole regiment of impressive vibrators was lying: smooth, ribbed, latex, helium, straight and bent, thick and thin, long and less than a little finger, quite neutral and ridiculously bright.

I instantly noticed one toy. It was a latex dildo, quite common, slightly bent in the manner of a ready-to-attack genuine male penis. It was more than 20 centimeters long and thick enough to fill up my vagina. Massive base was embraced with a pattern of twisted curls thus visually making the vibrator even longer. Moreover it had a thing that I was looking for: in the bottom of the vibrator under the massive base three petals were looking at me. As a fan they were opened from one point. Two petals were larger and placed at one level and the third petal – a smaller one – between its twin neighbors.

I took the vibrator in my arm. My fingers slightly squeezed a twisted by swollen veins latex pipe and my palm felt a pleasant coolness of latex. I squeezed the pipe stronger and vibrator responded by subtle movement as if it sighed, came to life. Something immediately echoed inside me, something waved and my body trembled.

- Please, tell me about this one. Could you turn it on? very slowly I handed the toy into the hands of the salesgirl.

- It's very simple, two batteries are inserted over here, - the salesgirl opened a small round lid on the base of the vibrator, - slight click and you can use it. The strength of vibration you can regulate yourself. The petals are for clitoral stimulation. The larger two pull the vulvar lips apart and the middle one stimulates clitoris.

- I take it, - was my answer since my arm still remembered the trembling pipe of vibrator.

That very evening I tried the toy and the result was stunning! Since then on every occasion I have been playing with my new and already favorite toy. I like anal sex and in a couple of days playing with my new friend I decided to try it anally… After that evening I started to joke: What do I need men for?
› Sex Toys Selling Slot-Machines
Oct 05, 2006
Formerly they were giving out chips and disgusting coffee. However nowadays slot-machines can provide you with an absolutely new spectrum of goods mini vibrators, bottles of love nectar (oral sex lubricants), silicon heads and lustful fingers.

Pubs and night clubs in the outskirts of London, Manchester and Newcastle started to offer a range of sex toys at the price of about 5 pounds per item that can be bought with the help of the fuchsia-colored Tabooboo slot-machine. As a rule, such machines are placed in lavatories to provide a potential buyer with some privacy. Yet some of the machines stand out right in the center of hairdressers attaching to the old saying Preparing for the weekend, sir? a new meaning.

Pub Alphabet in London West-end was the first to mount the slot-machine. It was placed against the wall in the center of the Pub. Manager Jeff Todd says that it's used every day. Some people use it just because it stands in the Pub, the others come here purposely: perhaps they’re ashamed of going to sex shops. Some of them buy sex toys to try something new, some – just for fun, and the others – to present to someone. This undertaking has great recall and demand".

Alan Lucas managing director of Tabooboo is planning to distribute such slot-machines all over the country and afterwards establish their export to the USA and Italy.

It's a challenge to the traditional notion about sex toys. A host of various goods are being sold, so I asked myself: why don't we make slot-machines selling sex toys? We're reasoning from the fact that people don’t like buying such things at the counter. All the goods are put into the packaging just twice or three times bigger than a block of cigarettes. We're selling mini vibrators as powerful as big ones. Most popular toy of the moment to date – vibrating ring for man. It costs 5 pounds.

Lucas continues: "The attitude to sex toys of the modern generation is different. We deprive these goods of pornographic associations by giving the opportunity to buy them anonymously, privately and in convenient attractive packaging.

Slot-machines with sex toys are swimming with the current of rapid growth of sex toys production by splendid companies such as Coco de Mer, Myla and Agent Provocateur, which hire designers to create works of art for sensual pleasure.

More unpretentious company Ann Summers, one of most profitable in Great Britain has an annual turnover of more than 155 million pounds.

In a new number of the Spectator journalist-catholic Pierce Pall Rid popularizing restriction of sexual appetites wrote that the idea of sex toys slot-machines seems monstrous: "Sex is not a game. These toys are absolutely horrible.

By the way according to the Daily Star, British football-player David Beckham presented his wife a vibrator costing $1,8 million: it is the most expensive sex toy in the world. It's made of platinum, incrusted with a 10 carat diamond and fixed on a necklace with a 16 carat diamond.
› Fear of Orgasm vs. Fear of Sex-Shops
Oct 04, 2006
They are growing like mushrooms. They draw our attention but we at one stroke pretend as if we are looking in another direction. Enough! It’s time to boldly open the door.

To prepare for your first visit to sex-shop you'll need some free time, nobody around, big mirror and imperturbable expression. Advisable but not obligatory is good illumination. Stand before the mirror and play the beginning of your discussion with a salesgirl.

First variant (for those who quickly blushes) a neutral one.
Your task is to pronounce the phrase: Hello, what novelties do you have? without mumbling and stammering.

Second variant (for advanced users) for those who want to feel more confident and able to keep up any conversation.
Your task is to ask to show you something specific: Please, give me that cute clitoris stimulator, or Please, tell me the difference between dildos number 1, 6 and 18.

If your decision to visit sex-shop isn't based on idle curiosity but requires solution of some specific task or elimination of a small awkwardness, it's reasonable to first of all get some theory. The information of such a kind is more than enough on the Internet. At least general idea of what you should do to solve your problem will be definitely found there.

Any virtual sex-shop has detailed description of the goods, pictures and guidelines. Moreover, your order will be sent to your direct address in opaque packaging. Virtual sex-shops have only one disadvantage: you can only view two-dimensional pictures but kinesthetic perception (latex, leather, vinyl) you won't get.

You can go to reconnaissance alone with proud and independent appearance of a free woman. Fearlessly open the cherished door without hesitation and indecision. You can also take your friend with you to communicate and discuss philosophy… pardon, phallusophy.

If your boyfriend insists on going to the sex-shop together you should remember that not always his admonitions are based on his striving to intensify your mutual pleasure. Some examples in such moments are far from scrutinizing tapes with frank porno or sado-masochistic sex toys or pumps for male dignity enlargement. They're thoroughly studying you behavior. Is she strained? Is she perplexed? Will she go like a shot from a gun out of this shop? Thus use his methods: often ask him (not a salesgirl) provocative questions and watch his reaction.

Don't worry there are no maniacs in sex-shops. There're couples of different sexes that decided to diversify their sexual life with the help of various sex toys men and women that feel good together but lack pungent sensations, another architectural over-indulgence. There are also designers looking for a pair of fluffy white handcuffs for their creative photo session.

Have not decided yet? Think is it reasonable to run into extremes and pretend that you have never even heard about such shops, or shout that such shops are visited by perverted people? Don't you think it's better to buy a sex toy than look for adventures for your second 90s?
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